New life 🏳️‍🌈 new account ➡️ @thenew New life 🏳️‍🌈 new account ➡️ @thenewlolgbtq - follow for my next chapter 

Four years ago, I was married to a man, killing myself to try to grow a semi-successful mom blog, and starving my body in an attempt to keep it all together. I told myself — and anyone who would listen — that I was living my best life. I was happy.

I was lying.

Today, I’m divorced from that man, remarried to my best friend, navigating what it’s like to come out in your 40s after a lifetime of being “straight”, softer and saggier and at least 30 pounds heavier … and finally ready to talk about it all. 

When I divorced the father of my children and then fell in love with a woman, I went dark on Instagram. I stopped blogging. I had nothing to say. 

And then, last weekend — our first @brandicarlilesmothershipwkd. 🌈 And the weekend’s @sadfriendssocialclub vulnerability workshop. ❤️‍🔥 I discovered I’m ready again.

Mothership was like coming home. For the first time in a long time, I felt completely free to be me. With my wife. Unafraid and unashamed.

I’m not lying anymore. To myself or my audience. 

I still don’t always know where we belong. We’re the token queer couple in a sea of straight friends. We still “pass” as straight even in the LGBTQ community. We’re finding our way one day at a time. 

This is #theNewLOLgbtq — figuring out life as a late-onset lesbian. But I know this: whoever you are, whomever you love, you belong here. ❣️

 #thenewLOL #thenewlolgbtq #queermoms #queerfam #twomoms #newtolgbtq #lateonsetlesbians #latetolesbian #lesbianmoms #ipreview
When we took this picture yesterday morning, I was When we took this picture yesterday morning, I was wearing black to show my dissent on Roe v. Wade. 🖤 As we were leaving our local 4th of July parade, the world got darker. We heard about another parade in another Chicago suburb. Highland Park - just an hour north. The scene of yet another mass shooting. 💔

For so many reasons, this one hits too close to home. What if it had been us? What if it had been Wheaton? Could we protect our kids? Could their little legs run fast enough? Would our family get separated in the chaos? Would we all make it out unhurt? Why? WHY? Why does every parent have to consider these possibilities? And WHY do we keep letting this happen?

On the 4th of July, we had to talk to our 9-year-old, 8-year-old and 6-year-old about mass shootings. Because they happen so often now, we need the kids to know. We don’t want them to be perpetually afraid — but we need them to be prepared. 

Now when I look at this picture, I hear their questions in my head. Did people die? In real life? Kids like me? I hear Easton, the 9-year-old, matter-of-factly explaining to his brothers how to hide on a toilet seat in a bathroom stall so you can’t be seen. I hear the steel edge in my own voice when I tell them that if it ever happens at their school, to stay quiet and do EXACTLY what their teachers say.

“Could this happen at our school?”

“Could this happen tomorrow at summer camp?”

“Mommy … this could happen anywhere, couldn’t it?”

I can’t lie to them. I won’t. The stakes are too high. And yet, it’s hard to get out the words to confirm their nightmares — to confirm every parent’s own nightmare.

It could. And we need to fight until it can’t.

Follow my new account @kate.writes.real.life for more like this ❤️‍🔥

#momsdemandaction #marchforourlives #enoughisenough #protectkidsnotguns #guncontrolnow #4thofjuly #highlandpark #lgbtq #lgbtqfamily #blendedfamily #twomoms
The past year has been filled with so many hard mo The past year has been filled with so many hard moments. Moments that challenged me. Moments that almost broke me.

But then there are the moments when it all comes together and I know exactly why I fought like hell to be here. Moments like these, when my heart could split open with the happiness I’ve found. No, scratch that — with the happiness 𝙬𝙚’𝙫𝙚 𝙘𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙩𝙚𝙙.

Today and every day, I’m thankful to be right here. ❤️ Happy Thanksgiving from my family to yours 🍁 

📸: the oh-so-patient @hbphotography630 

#modernfamily #blendedfamily #buildalifeyoulove #lgbtqfamily #twomoms #familyphotos #familygoals #thanksgiving #lifeafterdivorce
Partners ❤️🔎🕵🏻‍♀️🕵🏻‍♀ Partners ❤️🔎🕵🏻‍♀️🕵🏻‍♀️
Questionable parenting decision: Taking three boys Questionable parenting decision: Taking three boys ages 5-8 to @medievaltimes_chicago for Mother’s Day. You’d think two moms would know how to do ‘our day’ better. 😂 There was some whining, some tears, some beer, and some light-up weapons ... but somehow a lot of fun too. 

Life these days is far from Insta-perfect but it’s mine ❤️
“𝙸 𝚑𝚊𝚝𝚎 𝚊𝚌𝚌𝚒𝚍𝚎𝚗𝚝𝚜 𝚎𝚡𝚌𝚎𝚙𝚝 𝚠𝚑𝚎𝚗 𝚠𝚎 𝚠𝚎𝚗𝚝 𝚏𝚛𝚘𝚖 𝚏𝚛𝚒𝚎𝚗𝚍𝚜 𝚝𝚘 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚜...” 
- 𝚝𝚊𝚢𝚕𝚘𝚛 𝚜𝚠𝚒𝚏𝚝

Sometimes a moment changes everything. A kiss. A sunset. A friendship that’s suddenly more. 

a #loveislove story is on the blog tonight 🖤

#thisisus #lovewins #lovestory #samesexrelationship #lgbtq🌈
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Finding My Way Back: Winter 2019 Body Back Results | How Working Out Less Helped Me Get More Results #fitnessjourney #fit4mom #motivation #exercise
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Finding My Way Back: 8 Weeks to a Better Me

How Working Out Less Helped Me See More Results, and Why I Keep Returning to Body Back This post is part of a partnership with FIT4MOM DuPage County. All opinions are my own. I did, again. Jumped in to Body Back in January with my whole heart and mind because I needed to feel better. …

by Kate | #NeverDoneWithFunupdated on March 4, 2019March 4, 2019
This Is Me, Strength Beneat Squish: One Mom's Struggle With Body Image and Self-Acceptance #fitnessmotivation #bodyimage #selflove
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This Is Me, Strength Beneath Squish

Why the Struggle with Body Image Isn’t an Overnight Fix This post is part of a partnership with FIT4MOM DuPage County. All opinions are my own. I started 2019 off disenchanted. I avoided my skinny jeans. I found solace in the brilliance of leggings and long slouchy sweaters. I took entire bursts of photos just to …

by Kate | #NeverDoneWithFunupdated on February 21, 2019February 22, 2019
Small Steps for Big Changes: Healthy Fitness Habits You Can Do Daily For Big Impact on Wellness #fitness #fitnessjourney #healthylifestyle
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Small Steps for Big Change

This post is part of a partnership with FIT4MOM DuPage County. All opinions are my own. I am heading into Week 4 of FIT4MOM Body Back … which is when the hard work really starts. The program isn’t new anymore; motivation lags; temptations continue. Especially on the weekends. This past weekend was filled with plans …

by Kate | #NeverDoneWithFunupdated on January 28, 2019January 29, 2019
The Power of Community: How Finding Your Tribe Can Make the Difference Between Motivation or Not | FIT4MOM Body Back Transformation Week 2 | #fitnessjourney #fitspo #motivation
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The Power of Community

This post is part of a partnership with FIT4MOM DuPage County. All opinions are my own. I just finished up my second week of FIT4MOM Body Back (already!), and I’ll be real honest: I’ve been so good — sticking with the meal plan, drinking tons of water, skipping after-dinner snacks, and getting in my workouts …

by Kate | #NeverDoneWithFunupdated on January 21, 2019January 21, 2019

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New life 🏳️‍🌈 new account ➡️ @thenew New life 🏳️‍🌈 new account ➡️ @thenewlolgbtq - follow for my next chapter 

Four years ago, I was married to a man, killing myself to try to grow a semi-successful mom blog, and starving my body in an attempt to keep it all together. I told myself — and anyone who would listen — that I was living my best life. I was happy.

I was lying.

Today, I’m divorced from that man, remarried to my best friend, navigating what it’s like to come out in your 40s after a lifetime of being “straight”, softer and saggier and at least 30 pounds heavier … and finally ready to talk about it all. 

When I divorced the father of my children and then fell in love with a woman, I went dark on Instagram. I stopped blogging. I had nothing to say. 

And then, last weekend — our first @brandicarlilesmothershipwkd. 🌈 And the weekend’s @sadfriendssocialclub vulnerability workshop. ❤️‍🔥 I discovered I’m ready again.

Mothership was like coming home. For the first time in a long time, I felt completely free to be me. With my wife. Unafraid and unashamed.

I’m not lying anymore. To myself or my audience. 

I still don’t always know where we belong. We’re the token queer couple in a sea of straight friends. We still “pass” as straight even in the LGBTQ community. We’re finding our way one day at a time. 

This is #theNewLOLgbtq — figuring out life as a late-onset lesbian. But I know this: whoever you are, whomever you love, you belong here. ❣️

 #thenewLOL #thenewlolgbtq #queermoms #queerfam #twomoms #newtolgbtq #lateonsetlesbians #latetolesbian #lesbianmoms #ipreview
When we took this picture yesterday morning, I was When we took this picture yesterday morning, I was wearing black to show my dissent on Roe v. Wade. 🖤 As we were leaving our local 4th of July parade, the world got darker. We heard about another parade in another Chicago suburb. Highland Park - just an hour north. The scene of yet another mass shooting. 💔

For so many reasons, this one hits too close to home. What if it had been us? What if it had been Wheaton? Could we protect our kids? Could their little legs run fast enough? Would our family get separated in the chaos? Would we all make it out unhurt? Why? WHY? Why does every parent have to consider these possibilities? And WHY do we keep letting this happen?

On the 4th of July, we had to talk to our 9-year-old, 8-year-old and 6-year-old about mass shootings. Because they happen so often now, we need the kids to know. We don’t want them to be perpetually afraid — but we need them to be prepared. 

Now when I look at this picture, I hear their questions in my head. Did people die? In real life? Kids like me? I hear Easton, the 9-year-old, matter-of-factly explaining to his brothers how to hide on a toilet seat in a bathroom stall so you can’t be seen. I hear the steel edge in my own voice when I tell them that if it ever happens at their school, to stay quiet and do EXACTLY what their teachers say.

“Could this happen at our school?”

“Could this happen tomorrow at summer camp?”

“Mommy … this could happen anywhere, couldn’t it?”

I can’t lie to them. I won’t. The stakes are too high. And yet, it’s hard to get out the words to confirm their nightmares — to confirm every parent’s own nightmare.

It could. And we need to fight until it can’t.

Follow my new account @kate.writes.real.life for more like this ❤️‍🔥

#momsdemandaction #marchforourlives #enoughisenough #protectkidsnotguns #guncontrolnow #4thofjuly #highlandpark #lgbtq #lgbtqfamily #blendedfamily #twomoms
The past year has been filled with so many hard mo The past year has been filled with so many hard moments. Moments that challenged me. Moments that almost broke me.

But then there are the moments when it all comes together and I know exactly why I fought like hell to be here. Moments like these, when my heart could split open with the happiness I’ve found. No, scratch that — with the happiness 𝙬𝙚’𝙫𝙚 𝙘𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙩𝙚𝙙.

Today and every day, I’m thankful to be right here. ❤️ Happy Thanksgiving from my family to yours 🍁 

📸: the oh-so-patient @hbphotography630 

#modernfamily #blendedfamily #buildalifeyoulove #lgbtqfamily #twomoms #familyphotos #familygoals #thanksgiving #lifeafterdivorce
Partners ❤️🔎🕵🏻‍♀️🕵🏻‍♀ Partners ❤️🔎🕵🏻‍♀️🕵🏻‍♀️
Questionable parenting decision: Taking three boys Questionable parenting decision: Taking three boys ages 5-8 to @medievaltimes_chicago for Mother’s Day. You’d think two moms would know how to do ‘our day’ better. 😂 There was some whining, some tears, some beer, and some light-up weapons ... but somehow a lot of fun too. 

Life these days is far from Insta-perfect but it’s mine ❤️
“𝙸 𝚑𝚊𝚝𝚎 𝚊𝚌𝚌𝚒𝚍𝚎𝚗𝚝𝚜 𝚎𝚡𝚌𝚎𝚙𝚝 𝚠𝚑𝚎𝚗 𝚠𝚎 𝚠𝚎𝚗𝚝 𝚏𝚛𝚘𝚖 𝚏𝚛𝚒𝚎𝚗𝚍𝚜 𝚝𝚘 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚜...” 
- 𝚝𝚊𝚢𝚕𝚘𝚛 𝚜𝚠𝚒𝚏𝚝

Sometimes a moment changes everything. A kiss. A sunset. A friendship that’s suddenly more. 

a #loveislove story is on the blog tonight 🖤

#thisisus #lovewins #lovestory #samesexrelationship #lgbtq🌈
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